Hi I am Alex! AKA Frost Bite (Retired roller derby name)
I've been living in Austin, Texas, for eight years, where I work in recruiting. I share my North Austin apt with my two cats and love the city's vibe. I’m a big fan of going to the movies, trying new restaurants (total foodie here!), and spontaneous adventures. You can catch me at most of
the Austin FC soccer games. I also love a good spa day. I am highly invested in my skincare routine—self-care is important to me.
I love a good time, but I can also find myself on the more serious side, so anyone who's happy-go-lucky, a tad goofy, always smiling, and keeps things light-hearted is a super bonus for me!
I'm looking for someone who's fun and adventurous but also knows what they want. After having had my fair share of "games," I'm only interested in connecting with people who are clear about what they're seeking, not just casual. Ideally, I'm seeking a connection with someone who's great at communicating, sweet and affectionate—but can also bring out their wild side when the moment calls for it.
Being playful in the bedroom is really important to me, and intimacy is something I value deeply. While I'm pretty freaky and open-minded, I do have my limits—respect is key, and I'm not a fan of name-calling or disrespect, even in role play.
I’m drawn to people who are career-focused, growth-minded, and ambitious in their own right. I appreciate anyone who invests in their health and fitness—I'm often at the gym and staying active is a big part of my life. I’m also an avid wine drinker, so if you enjoy a good glass, we’ll have plenty to talk about!
I’m looking for a relationship based on mutual respect—I'm not after *** or anything monetary ( don’t need it either) a happy life with someone who values love, connection, and growth. While I’m based in Austin, I’m open to a long-distance relationship as long as we can see each other at least once a month, whether that’s me coming to you or you coming to visit me. And if you decide to message me on FET, I’d love it if you send a voice note to kick things off!
In the future, I see myself with a partner who wants to build a family (kids and all) and isn't afraid of commitment. I have a strong preference for Black men or women. If you're confident, caring, and can keep things exciting while working toward your goals, let's connect!
I don’t host, not wanting any other normal vanilla experience so let me know whats on your mind!
